Jacob and Elijah Shaddox are brothers. Jacob is 21 years old and just moved into an apartment with his girlfriend. He graduated from a technical college with an Associate's degree in Computer Maintenance. He works for a school district as a computer technician. Elijah is almost 18 years old. He is hearing impaired, has Tourette Syndrome, OCD and ADHD. He is a junior in high school. Elijah lives with his mom Mary and her wife, his stepmom. Mary has a bachelor's in deaf education and a masters in special education, and is an educational diagnostician. Life is always changing and this blog has chronicled many of these changes and will continue to do so!

Saturday, August 9, 2014


Earlier today, my doorbell rang and so I went to answer the door. When I opened the door, there were two women standing there both looking at me. I stood there and waited, and they didn't say anything. I then asked who they were looking for. The taller woman then gestured to the shorter one who began signing. The taller woman started interpreting for her. I then told them both that I know sign language. They were Jehova's Witnesses, who wanted to tell me about some videos online for children with sign language. We spoke, and then I asked them how they knew I had a deaf son. Now, realize, they had never asked me if I had a son who was deaf, and I doubt they just went door to door informing people of these videos. They then said that a neighbor had mentioned to another Jehova's Witness that there was a deaf boy who lived on the street. I am sure it came up when someone saw the DEAF CHILD AREA sign on our street.

Many people have the misconception that all deaf children sign. Granted, Elijah does understand some signs, but it is not his main mode of communication. The same is true for children with cochlear implants, not all of these children can communicate orally. Many children with cochlear implants still use sign language. There is no right or wrong way, there is just the way that is right for that particular child or family.

1 comment:

  1. JW pulled the "your neighbor said there was a deaf person next door" card on me, but someone who works for Vocational Rehab is a JW herself and has been telling JW of all the deaf folks in our community. Either way, I hate that they try to go after the deaf community, trying to recruit them to the church. If any one wants to go to a JW church on their own accords, fine. But do not go out badgering any and all deaf folks! Sorry, but I have been extremely upset with the local JW church with their constant "stalking" and "harassment". "We have ASL bible studies! You should come join us!" The entire local deaf community is disgusted with the local JW church, and even more so with the V.R. counselor for sharing our addresses and places of employment with the JW church. Deaf people are not helpless. And they also have their own beliefs and views, they do not need JW's "help"!